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.Friday, March 18, 2016 ' 12:30 AM Y
& I'm waiting

To the children...

For you who are asking why my daddy steals things,
You who are asking why my mummy left me,
You who are asking why my auntie hits me,
You who are asking why my brother fights with another…

Have you committed a mistake before?

Committing a mistake means to do something wrong, like when your teacher tells you in class that it is wrong to draw on the table, it is wrong to take your friend’s eraser, it is wrong to shout and run around during class…

But you may ask, why is it wrong?

Is it wrong because teacher says it is wrong?

All I can tell you is, one day when you grow up, you will know why it is wrong. Maybe, you will find that it’s right, not wrong.

Because everyone does something for a reason. And you will be the one who decides whether that reason is right or wrong, whether you should follow what your teacher tells you, whether you should say “it’s okay” to the person that tells you “I’m sorry” like your teacher taught you.

But to do that, you have to begin with learning.

You have to sit down, pick up that pencil, and listen to what the teacher is trying to teach you.

Remember that teachers do not always have time to teach you, because they have to learn too. So when they do teach you, you have to be good and sit quietly and learn.

So that you can become a strong person, so that you can know what is right or wrong, so that you can protect and forgive those you love and so that… you can teach another what you have learnt.


And for the adults, for that child in you who was once hurt and confused, we may wish that a teacher had taught us how to sit down and learn when we were young. But it is never too late. 

Pick up that pen, sit down and learn. So that someday, you can learn the way to heal that child in you.

And if you can, teach it to the next child. So that someday, that child will be able to heal himself.


How I wish I could teach you to understand this… the reason why we should learn, study and sit in classes.   



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Luping is a lost child that has been seeking for her career direction since the first time someone asked her "What would you like to be when you grow up?", when she was still too tiny to reach the basin in her house. Despite reading books like What Should I Do with My Life: The True Story of People Who Answered the Ultimate Question by Po Bronson, she had been searching like a headless housefly (literally translated from 无头苍蝇) past graduation when she actually probably needed to find a job. Eventually, she found a job and a... direction.

For those who know Luping personally, she loves plushies/soft toys and is prepared to go on war with anyone who gets their hands on her babies. Her babies are personified with voices of hers and her Mummy's, and both of them enjoy framing the babies for things they obviously cannot do. When her Mummy suggested that if one day, the babies actually speak up, “那应该会吓死” (it would probably frighten one to death), she responded that she will instead “开心死” (be happy till death) if xiaofenhong (our cute, hot pink, flat bunny) replies her. That is the extent of her loneliness love for her babies.

And for those who know Luping as Amethyst, she is a rather huge fangirl of the Korean boy band, Super Junior. So much that she learnt (and is still learning - 반가워요!) Korean in hope of understanding what they say without subtitles and avoiding the losses in translation. She has been a fanfic writer for two years and counting, which sparked off her interest in writing and thus, this blog to practise writing so that one day, she might have the courage to apply for a (content) writer position or send in a manuscript to a publisher.

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